Here’s a good place to start
https://forum.tudiabetes.org/t/insulin-pumps-which-what-and-how/457344
I don’t have kids, but in over 25 years of pumping, I’ve never had a set rip out. (knock on wood!) . I keep my pump clipped to my pants pocket.
If you are interested in the Accu-chek Combo, it’s the one I have.