Your daughter is so lucky!! I feel there are regular people walking around us now that have a similar spirit as the Dai Lai Lama, Jesus, Pope Francis, etc. My mom was a gentle soul who had been threw a lot, and I think she was one.
Last night I had hot flashes, but was able to go right back to sleep, so I don’t feel as dragged out as the days when the hot flash is severe with a pounding heart beat, very hot, headache, etc. My blood sugar this morning was good- 85- so I did something right yesterday- but what was it???
Have you heard about the thermoregulation theory of hot flashes- that women with them have a narrow thermal zone in which they can function, and just by taking a hot shower at night or eating spicy food or drinking a hot beverage etc, they can get hot flashes at night.
i still have a hot decaf in the morning, but i took a lukewarm shower in the morning yesterday. It wasn’t uncomfortable, and maybe it did help with having a little better sleep and much better blood sugar (85), in addition to being careful with my carb intake and not eating close to bedtime. i also don’t do any of the common hot flash triggers: no smoking, alcohol, sugar, caffeine (except for what small amount there is in decaf).
as for medicine, i remember Dr. Bernstein saying he would have to cycle patients from med to med as they would stop working. I am considering taking gabapentin, since that is one of its newer off label uses- preventing hot flashes. I read one woman’s experience where it worked for a while, then stopped. So I could take Benadryl Sunday night then gabapentin (Neurontin) on Wednesday. Then if one of those drugs stopped working, I could substitute in Brisdelle. I know Brisdelle (which is a small dose of the antidepressant Paxil) doesn’t have to be tapered down- you can take it or not take it whenever you want, same as Benadryl. I’m not sure about the gabapentin. But anyway my idea is to take different drugs on different days, with days in between of not taking anything, in an effort to prevent tolerance to any one of the drugs. I see my ob/gyn in April and will ask her for a gabapentin perscription. Then I will start the Benadryl gabapentin combo and see how that goes first. Between now and April I plan to really watch my carb intake (because higher carb makes the hot flashes worse), pay attention to hot triggers, so avoiding hot drinks, hot showers, exercise etc close to bedtime, and I will continue to try to lose weight. I am now only taking Benadryl twice a week, and then I only take it if I am really dragged out from days of not sleeping well.
i have read several women say acupuncture has helped with hot flashes- what is the schedule of treatments for it? do you continue to get treatments? how expensive are they? i will investigate Amitriptyline. Thanks for your ideas!!
PS I just saw that Amitriptyline has anticholinergic effects, just like Benadryl and Brisdelle (Paxil). I need to be very careful that I don’t overload my system with anticholinergic drugs since I have already experienced memory problems from benadryl. but i will put up with some down side in order not to feel like a zombie all the time.
this is a good website on anticholinergic drugs:
https://www.agingbraincare.org/tools/abc-anticholinergic-cognitive-burden-scale/