Rebecca:
So sorry to hear of your troubles. I can’t say anything to take away the pain. It will gradually get dimmer until, I believe, it will become a fond memory of your lost little one in God’s hands. Do NOT blame yourself or anyone else. It was just meant to happen.
As cliches go, the one that I would find the most encouraging is that you now know that you can get pregnant. Before trying again, go to the DR and find out what you can do to encourage conception and completion of a pregnancy. Maybe something you can do or eat to make sure you are ready is out there. Spiritually, don’t be shy about consulting a clergy man or woman and ALWAYS feel free to bounce it off of anyone here. If we can’t recommend actions at least we can console.
Love in my heart always,
Lois