For women: how you deal with the crazy hormonal fluxuations of the rollercoaster of peri menopause?

does your BS shoot up unexplanably? do you experience nite-time hot flashes?are you constantly changing your pump basal rates? covering your meals with rediculous amounts of insulin(boluses) are your A1cs all over
the board? do you feel frustrated and helpless. do you go on HRT? (estrogen, for example)does it feel like it will never end? UGH.

responces very welcome.