I'm new to the group and already appreciate the previous postings. My husband's son was recently diagnosed with type I. He lives with his mom full time and we enjoy him for weekend visits. Mom and I have a very strained relationship and doesn't want to communicate with me at all about the son. Fortunately, she will communicate with dad on an interrmittent basis but we both are trying to find ways to open the doors of communication so that our shared son has a team rather than just people who live in the same village. Any tips on how we can help son and mom without stepping on toes?