When I was first diagnosed my little sister, who was 7 at the time, was very jealous. She saw me come home from the hospital with new stuffed animals and fake syringes and saline to play with. She was already jealous of my little brother, the baby of the family, because he was getting more attention than her. And then suddenly I was getting a lot of attention too. I could eat food when it wasn't a meal time, and she couldn't. She used to say that she wanted Diabetes all the time. She asked once if I could give it to her, would I, and I said no. She thought that was because it was fun. I was nine, and didn't know how to articulate what I was thinking in a way that would make her understand, so I didn't say much.
She outgrew actually wanting to have Diabetes after a few months, but she started saying really stupid things. When I was 12 two of the neighbors' granddaughters came over to play with us and she told them, "Mom really overreacts about the whole Diabetes thing." I didn't say anything then either, because I didn't want to embarrass her in front of the other girls, but I was mad. "The whole Diabetes thing."
She's done several other things like that. She gets mad at me and calls me lazy when everyone but me is outside doing yardwork, and I'm inside drinking sugared tea because I'm low. She has even accused me of going low on purpose. It really doesn't help when I'm already feeling sick because I'm low, and guilty because I'm not helping.
One of my older brothers is my best friend, but even he has said some hurtful things about it. Once when I was low and I was acting stupid, one of my older sisters and him said something about how I'm faking it. I'm only pretending to be that stupid because I think it's funny. I was already emotionally unstable because lows do that to me, so that really hurt. They were just standing there, talking to each other as if I wasn't there and laughing at me. I tried to defend myself, but I can barely speak when I'm low so it didn't work.
I've also struggled with getting him to ride our bikes with me. I'm not allowed to do anything like that alone, in case I go low. I'm pretty sure he has saved my life a couple times while we're on walks or bike rides, so I wouldn't go without him even if I was allowed to. But recently he hasn't wanted to, because he doesn't feel like it. We didn't go at all last year. It seems like a little thing to him, but it stresses me out a lot. Less exercise means more insulin which means more money from my parents, which I hate. I'm also an artist, and the thought of losing my eyesight scares me a lot, so I don't want to be high all the time. But he doesn't get it.
Recently, my five year old niece was here for a visit and she saw me eating Smarties. She asked for some, and I said she couldn't have any because I needed them for medicine. She said "No fair! You get candy as medicine." I told her, "Yes, but I also get shots as medicine." That worked pretty well and she never said it wasn't fair again. I wish I had thought of saying that to my sister six years ago...