We never get more than we can handle? What complete and utter BS

" I have heard that we never get more than we can handle." … I read this comment in another blog , posted today …The family, who posted , is going through a tremendous amount of sadness .I wonder, because of the bold comment, that this blog appeared .I never felt , that the person who wrote the bold comment , as highlighted by me , ment it to be annoying, hurtful or otherwise. I hope I am wrong …but it certainly appears not to be a coincidence .I will delete my comment, if I have erred in my observation …
I have nothing else to add .