While I agree with you somewhat, that sometimes A1C’s don’t accurately reflect daily events, I used to get A1C’s easily in the low 6’s, but my #'s were ALL OVER the place… I had swings from 30 to 300 almost every day, and it was hard to live my life that way. I was not in what I would have considered good control, yet my endo was pleased as punch with me because my labs always looked “perfect”… no one was really concerned with my meter and what it showed, even when I brought up the problems I was having - THAT was frustrating. There is nothing quite like telling a doctor you are struggling, and explain why, and they blow you off because your labs are “great”. I even hit the 5% club once while under her care… and trust me when I say that I was NOT in control at all. I fired that endo soon after, because I was just fed up with their lack of care.
Now (and 5 or 6 endos later… I had a few years where I didn’t stay with a doctor more than a few months), I tend to hover in the mid-high 6’s, with an occasional low 7 and I am okay with that - because I don’t have the extreme lows or overall variability that I used to have, so I feel like my control is much “better” even though my A1C is a bit higher than my doctor would prefer (she’d like me right around 6.0%). I don’t really care about getting mine lower than this… because for me, it’s where my comfort zone is. I wouldn’t want to go higher, of course, but I don’t stress out about it either.
That said, a higher A1C (I’ll be generous here, say over 8%) always indicates poor control… there’s just no getting around that because it’s an average. While it is possible to mask or hide highs with lows and pull off a reasonable A1C, if you are high a majority of the time, your A1C is going to show it, and there really is no taking your way out of that one. Wild swings from high to low and claims of being “unable” to do better absolutely indicate poor control to me - and I say that because I have been there. It is not a judgment for anyone out there who is struggling, but poor control signifies a situation where something just isn’t working right… and I can say from personal experience that it’s not always the patient or the tools they are provided with, sometimes the D team themselves can have a HUGE impact. I went through a really difficult struggle with allergies (to all insulins) and problems pumping last year, and it was horrible, but I made it through, and it was with the help of a very positive D team.
I have NEVER been made to feel by my current endo (or any of her staff) that if I fail to meet her goals that I have “failed” in any capacity - if my A1C is higher, we discuss ways I can improve things, or why whatever we are trying isn’t working, but it’s always in a positive way, even if I am beyond frustrated with D and myself and on the verge of burnout, she can always talk me down from it - I really need that. If she didn’t approach it that way, I think I would probably shut down and not care. I’ve been with doctors and CDE’s in the past who really made me feel lousy over things that in the big picture, shouldn’t have been a big deal, so it’s nice to feel like I have a doctor now who has an outlook on D that really works for me.