Wow -- and I thought I was sensitive to carbs. One carb only raises me about 5 pts, ordinarily.
If you haven't done so already, read this:
Richard K. Bernstein, Dr. Bernstein's Diabetes Solution, 4th. ed. (New York: Little, Brown and Company, 2011)
Bernstein is a controversial figure in the diabetes community. He is one of the true pioneers when it comes to management and control, but his approach is too strict for some people. That's okay -- the correct way to approach any expert's advice is to take what's useful and leave the rest. He does know the field, though -- I've gotten more day-in day-out practical knowledge from him than anyone else. The introductory chapter explaining what diabetes is and how it works is worth the price of the book by itself, IMOP.
One thing about Bernstein: he is a strong proponent of a low carb diet. He doesn't have much use for the ADA guidelines. In this I agree with him.
The best advice I can offer is this:
1. We are, each of us, highly individual in our responses to food, medication, etc. What works perfectly for me may be completely ineffective for the next person. Guidelines, no matter whose they are, are only starting points. You need to determine the regime that produces good results for you, and the only way to find that out is by trying things and testing to find out what works.
2. Test, test, test. All the theory in the world can't equal real measurements of what's actually happening.
3. Take small steps. Don't try to conquer it overnight. It takes time to get good at this -- and you will.
4. Test, test, test.
5. This one is really important: when you make changes, change only one thing at a time. Otherwise you can't know which change actually caused the result you got. If you're tweaking your diet, don't change meds at the same time. And vice versa. Etc.
6. Test, test, test.
7. A couple more excellent books chock full of very useful info and helpful tips:
Gary Scheiner, Think Like A Pancreas (Boston: Da Capo Press, 2011)
John Walsh et al., Using Insulin (San Diego: Torrey Pines Press, 2003)
The Walsh book is a little bit dated but still fundamentally sound and loaded with good information.
8. Test, test . . . . you get the idea.
9. Stay connected and active in tuD. This community is an incredibly rich source of shared experience and moral support. I've found nothing else remotely like it. For some, it has been a (literal) lifesaver.
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Hmmm. Didn't mean to ramble on quite so much . . . but you did ask for advice -- LOL. The above is essentially what I've done, and it's working. But I'm still improving. There is always more to learn; after all, we're going to be at this for a long time. ;-)
Hope some of this is helpful!
David