Disability

I have been trying to get on disability.I also have Epilepsy.My diabetes aggravates the condition. My seizures are petit mal and happen about 3x a month.I have been unable to keep a job because of the stigma behind this condition.I have been known to spill hot coffee on my legs while drinking it.I was doing housecleaning with a lady but when she found out I had seizures she just stopped calling me to come to work.Does anyone have any idea what I need to do in order to get what is rightfully mine?My husband is working overtime trying to make ends meet.We have been thinking about going to a paralegal to fight for us.Any ideas?