Help me here!! Kennedy is 13 now and taking over more and more of her diabetes duties. She's doing all her own diabetes care all day at school and not going to the nurse at all. Our endo said at our last visit give her one day a week to forget bolusing for lunch. If she misses two days then she needs to go back to nurse for reminder. She's mostly doing well with her school boluses, sometimes she boluses late, 40 minutes after eating. She's scared to bolus before because of the unpredictability of her school lunch. Sometimes there's nothing to eat at all. ( she has celiac) She doesn;t really want to bring lunch either. ( It s about doing anything to " stand out" or draw attention to herself, really)
Really its after school that 's more of a problem, grazing, not bolusing, or if she's at a ballgame, she will eat without bolusing. She told me " mom I'm just too busy.
Our endo suggested to get her afternoon snack all on one plate then bolus and be done with it rather than grazing.
Her aic usually is between 7.1 and 7.4, last visit was 7.5, so not terribly worse, but I dont want it to get any worse from there!
I still do her overnight stuff and respond to dex if it alarms, and remind her about upcoming pod changes, and dex changes, etc. But she does most of the changes actually herself. I might help her slap a tegaderm on but that's about it!
I'd like to hear what other dparents have found successful, what other adult t1's experienced as a teen, and what kind of discipline approaches work.
And then how do you seperate diabetes control issues from other teen discipline issues? Do you keep them completely seperate?
Do parents ever take away a privelege for poor diabetes habits? Like staying home on the weekend or taking away the phone? I just really think that seems cruel, but??? Is it for her own good?