Our dietician that partakes in our diabetes clinic is wonderful. But we are also in Canada.... so who knows?
I would ask your Endo about the amount of carbs per meal and snack they are going to go with. Depends on age of the child, along with activity level and body, health, family history all into one.
Our son is almost 7 now. Diag. at 2 1/2. Was on injections until last year where we went onto the pump. He's 48 in tall and weights about 46 lbs. We can't seem to add any weight to him if we tried. He is a super energetic kid. He also has ADHD which adds to the hyperness of everything. He burns so many calories and carbs, that it's a struggle just to keep him fed.
Carb wise his breakfast is about 35-45g depending on the amount of fresh fruit involved. Whole grain cereals, oatmeal, toast...
He usually gets a snack around 10:30 before school recess. This is about 10-20 carbs. Depends on what he is asking for for a snack. If I know they have a gym class on certain days, I will have him eat a granola bar, or some whole grain crackers, with cheese as the protein. Along with 4-8g of fruit. Strawberries, other half of banana from his breakfast or a kiwi.
Lunch is anywhere from 25-50 carbs. Average is about 35g. Also depends on what he wants or is getting tired of. Soups with rice or noodles, sandwiches, wraps or pitas are a big hit. For sides he always gets a serving of fresh veg. Cut up carrots, broc, cucumbers, cauliflower, zucchini, mushrooms, radishes. Sometimes it will be in as a salad. Greek salad or add the veg to lettuce and he takes some ranch with him. Usually gets a serving of fruit again as he loves fruit. Then he gets to pick a treat for himself if he eats all his lunch. A sugar free cookie, bunny grahams, dried fruit. If the treat is starchy I will sub out the carbs in the main course. If it is sugary I will sub out some of the fruit carbs.
If there is an afternoon recess or gym I will send along a 14-16g sugar free yougurt drink to have before he goes out. Dan Actives are a good size for him.
Afternoon snacks are only if he is hungry. This is where he gets to choose what he wants to have. Also has to be reasonable. Most of the time he wants more fresh fruit. Other times he wants some baked chips or cheeseballs. 10-15g at the most
Dinner is anywhere from 25-90g I would say on average it stays about 40 though. But about once a month we might be out and get fast food or out to a restaurant. Or if we are having homemade lasagna or fish and chips down on the beach. Lots of carbs and fat. Most of the dinners consist of Chicken and Fish, seldom we have pork or beef. Always a serving or two of veg, and a starchy carb, in the form of pasta, rice, or bread. He also loves milk, so if he asks for it, he gets a glass.
Then there is the bedtime snack. This is a habit from out injection days, which we are still doing to this day. Carbs are 10-20 The worst part of the day is getting through the night with out those lows. *2am tests* :( It's always a starchy carb - wheat thins, graham crackers, small sized granola bar, half peanut butter sandwich, or one of my freshly made cookies or breads or muffins. He loves ones with fruit in them. He goes to bed around 8pm and we get him up around 10:30-11:30 for a BG check and restroom break (we are trying to night time potty train still) If he is still running a bit high then he gets a correction bolus at that time. Otherwise he goes back to sleep and is fine till morning.
It seems like a lot of food and carbs, but he is always on the go. He plays hard and gives 100% at anything he does. He has been in hockey since Sept and what little fat we had to do his pump site changes in are gone. His belly is now abs and hard to get the needles not to bend when injecting the cannula in him. If he spends 30 min of physical activity, it has to be planned around a meal or snack. He usually drops 7 mmol points in that time. (250mg down to 125mg) Before every hockey practice or a game. He gets a snack 15-20 carbs either before or after depending if he is running a bit above normal or right at normal. We test directly after his practice. (usually 60-70 minutes of activity.) Then we do a temp basal of 50% for 90-120 minutes depending on the amount of activity he was doing. His adrenaline always makes his BG rise during games, then sharply drop off after for up to 3 hours. But in that time frame he is getting a meal or a snack to refuel.
Each person is different in how they burn energy and what their bodies need. We give our son great choices to keep him healthy and full of energy. He even gets to sneak in a treat now and again, as I said before, kids will be kids and they need to be. Fully frosted cupcake at a school birthday.. sure why not. Friends pizza party and he eats three pieces at 27g each... Sure... To each their own and what works for you and your family.