I can only speak for myself, but here has been my experience:
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my diagnosing doctor answered all questions about diet with “I am not a dietitian.”
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my CDE at the hospital answered all questions about diet with “here is what the ADA says, but you may want to try looking up a nutritional ketogenic diet, which I can’t recommend due to my licensing requirements.”
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my diabetes specialist doctor has recommended most of the foods you list, with a few exceptions.
Oranges, grapes, and pomegranates are very high in fructose, which leads to either a large spike in endogenous or exogenous insulin in order to metabolize the sugars. Since hyperinsulinemia is one of the primary reasons that diabetics have high incidences of CV, and high BG is the other, eliminating fruits is probably (in my doctor’s estimation) more beneficial than the antioxidant properties of the same fruits. You have to judge the risk for yourself, since I doubt a controlled study of fruits vs. no fruits in diabetics has been done in a long enough time frame to determine effects on CV risk.
Garlic and Red Wine are staples of the so-called “Mediterranean” diet, and while they certainly have their pluses, the “miracle” qualities associated to them (and resveratrol) ten years ago hasn’t really been borne out by subsequent research. The great medical mystery of why French and Italian men don’t keel over and die from heart attacks after eating cheese, butter, and fatty meat all day is no longer “solved” by red wine: the current thinking is that consumption of plenty of stinky, moldy cheeses has a greater effect on CV risk than consumption of red wine. You can read more about it in this recent article, which sums up nicely what we really know about wine, garlic, cheese, saturated fats, and CV risk: not much, really.
My doctor is super-keen on Sardines, Salmon, Kale, and Olive Oil, on the other hand, and so am I. Why? Because three of the four are full of good fats, and the third is green, tasty, and full of potassium and fiber. But I doubt Kale is, on balance, any more “heart protective” than any other green leafy vegetable (with the exception of iceberg lettuce, which is the dietary equivalent of drinking a glass of water tainted with algae). Omega-3s are short in most “Western” diets, and everyone should be eating plenty of green veggies.
So, to answer your question very succinctly: most doctors don’t know anything about diet, so they don’t give any advice at all; metabolic specialists tend to prescribe food and diet alongside medications for diabetes. So maybe you need a different kind of doctor 