I think that most days, my son gets tired of my reminders. Did you check your sugar? Did you cover yourself? How many carbs is that? What are some of the questions you are always asking or being asked by those who, well, you know they love you, but oh, sometimes they're just such a pain. Perhaps my son sees me this way. But, what do you think, agree or disagree. If I'm not on top of things, he will forget to check before bedtime or cover himself after the extra snack. It is frustrating because I really don't want to be the mom he just hates because "You don't leave me alone. I know what to do."
The truth is, he does forget. He'll say sorry and I just feel so bad. I am the voice of constant reminders. Dear son,I don't want to get on your case and annoy you. It's a very necessary reason I keep asking.
What reminders are constantly before you and still you forget. What are some ways to help those with diabetes live responsibly and not feel like their world is just one constant nag of what needs to get done, checked or covered?
hey mom of a winner!
i know what you are talking about, my mom did the same thing with me for years, sometimes she even called my teacher at school so she could ask me if i bolused for my breakfast, lol!
although i was always annoyed when she asked, i knew that she would only stop if i wouldnt forget anymore. and she knew, like you, that i was still forgetting. i think that it is good that you ask, maybe you can talk with your son about that and explain why you worry. at the end you will have to let him go, but i'm sure both of you are not ready yet. maybe you can make an agreement with him, and only ask if you really havent seen him bolusing. he will take over if he is ready, step by step. until then you can support him, and i am sure you are the best supporter he can have!!
love, swisschocolate
You've made me laugh and smile as I read your comment. My mom would agree she's not alone if I show her what you shared. Believe me, she still worries over my two brothers who are in their 30s and 40s over the same thing. You're too cute! Thanks so much. Blessed by your sharing.
SwissChocolate, you've hit the nail on the head. You truly understand what is going on here in this home. Jacob will be 11 years old by the end of the month and I want to know he will take care of himself when I'm not around. I love your ideas and yes, I will have that talk you suggested with him. I think it's a great way to just have him share and we can both come to an agreement on how to be best buds in this crazy house. Thanks dear friend. Take care.
