Hey girl, welcome to the club. What you need to do now is set your goal at being the least active member possible. That doesn't mean you don't do anything, it means you become The Boss.
I have no credentials to be dishing our advice, other than the marks on my fingers, but I'm going to anyway.
First, hold your head up high! I took various meds, which were adjusted every-other time I saw the doc over a period of a couple of years. Fortunately the results of my "if he can tweak the meds and correct the problem, it must be his and not mine" attitude apparently didn't result in any significant long term effects. It finally got to the point that long-acting insulin at night before bed was in order and a year or so later saw me "progress" to test and inject before every meal. That's when I began to get involved. You are starting on the right path-take it seriously and do something about it -- I salute you!
Second, this "manage your diabetes" game seems to have rules that are different for every player. The treatment regimens, medications, dosages, and unfortunately the results, vary significantly from person to person.
You mention testing at various times of the day. I suspect your doc is looking to collect some more information before selecting a path to travel. I found that my doc isn't the "solution provider", in fact when it comes to my diabetes the Diabetes Education and Support Team is my strongest resource. In order to properly use these resources I had to:
- get actively involved in the game, that means keeping records;
- develop some knowledge and understanding of what is going on so I can ask meaningful questions and recognize changes.
The record keeping is absolutely critical! A diagnosis and treatment regimen used must be based on reality, not just rules of thumb. The only generally applicable rules of thumb are eat regularly and eat right, loose some weight, get some exercise, and in most cases reduce carbohydrate intake. From your comments I'd guess your doc gave you that sermon and now the ball is in your court. You are the only one that can get the information needed to support a diagnosis. The information needs are blood glucose testing, food-intake nutritional values, weight, exercise, blood pressure and pulse, and medication usage.
I got really frustrated with trying to interpret the information I was collecting. After a number of months I developed some software to address the problem as I understand it.
I decided 2-hour-after testing was too hard for me to consistently do, and being The Boss I decided to adjust the playing field. I settled on before-meal (which I had to do anyway to calculate insulin dosage) and before going to bed testing. That gave me a fasting-test in the morning and about 4-hour spacing during the day. It didn't take long to see the patterns by meal and by day of the week, Saturday is my fall-off-the-wagon day. I just targeted carb-intake to about 45-grams per meal, didn't worry about calories or fat. In about 12-18 months I'd gotten my A1c to 5.5-5.7 area, dropped 40-pounds, and have now discontinued using any insulin.
You have the right idea, use life-style as the treatment, it's cheaper than meds and it does wonders for our self-image.
This diabetes thing is a challenging game. You are not the only player, but you are the only one that really counts.
Hang in there girl, as the man said "We shall over-come".