That’s funny. I love it when kids running around Greenlake give me a thumbs up. It’s like they’re saying, “Hey, I can run circles around you but I still recognize you as a fellow exercising human being doing the best she can with what she’s got at the moment.” I’ll challenge them to races sometimes just to see them laugh.
The ones who bug me are the ones who look me up and down with a harumph of, “Ewwww. How did she let herself go like that. That will never happen to me.” I give them a warm smile and think, “Oh, just you wait…”
Believe it or not, children, I used to be a trim, muscular, aerobically awesome martial artist who could do 200 sit-ups, kick the crap out of the heavy bag, break boards (easy, right?), stretch my legs out in front of me in a vee while sitting on the dojo floor and lean forward to put my chest nearly flat on the floor between my knees, my forehead on the floor and my arms out in front of me on the floor out past my feet (fold in half flat, basically), run 10K (usually 5K to 7K but one very memorable 10K), bike up steep hills (before bikes had a hundred gears), spar credibly with men six inches taller and 50-lbs. more muscular, do forward rolls from standing back to standing (on a gym mat, of course), etc.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7wV49Q9mpUI
There is a lot that can happen to a body in thirty years, especially if you throw in microscopically shattered tibias from stress fractures, auto-immune disease, a bout with melanoma, another foot surgery, clinical depression and a truly stupid career choice that’s nearly impossible to undo when you realize (too late?) the cost to your health (sitting for sixty to seventy hours per week is NOT the best way to stay fit and trim – who knew?!?)
So I go to the grocery store with friends or family and politely insist on being the one who pushes the cart, “Please? It’s my walker!”. Someday I’ll probably be the lady with the real walker galumphing slowly around the neighborhood and that’s fine with me. As long as I’m vertical and breathing and still trying, that beats the heck out of giving up.