Smells

I like food scents… but now they just remind of what a miserable event eating is now most of the time and how I can’t eat most of what I used to eat anymore… Strawberries are great…

Garden/plant scents are good too unless it is a strong perfume such as lavender which I’m very allergic to. I’m allergic to lots of plants unfortunately though, and most perfumes can give me a migraine. Some plant scents I like are datura leaves and flowers and thyme, as well as any of the mints. A lot of herbs are great because I don’t seem to get that migraine/allergic reaction as much or at all. Put them into a perfume formula with musk etc. and it’s like poison to me.

I hate all chemically smells, they give me migraines and asthma and they give me a sense of danger and that I need to get away from them.

OK, I am deathly allergic to strawberries.
I was not always this way; however over the past ten years, certain times of the growing season, I cannot walk into the fresh produce section.

I used to be able to eat them. Not frequently, but occasionally. When I started to get very dizzy from them, I stopped eating them, but would purchase them for my family.

I would then use rubber gloves and a knife and fork to cut them up and wash them.

But it has gotten so bad, I cannot stand in line behind someone buying them. Or someone two or three people ahead of me in line, who is buying them.

I cannot buy other berries --which I am NOT allergic to – if the produce department places them next to the strawberries.

I have to watch when my friend uses her cherry lip gloss, because I know there is strawberry in the mixture. I have a reaction to the smell every time she wears it!

And as I said before, if the aroma/odor is very pungent – I can’t enter a store or the produce section.

So that’s the bad.

The good is, I have one old small vial of a perfume from when I was 12 (!). It is a no-name brand I found somewhere – I literally found it on a bench or in a park, as if it had fallen out of someone’s purse.

This scent I used every summer growing up. It lasted nearly ten years. It is somewhat reminiscent of an old sunscreen / beachy scent. Since it never had a label, I could not replace it!!!

But EVERY time I passed a Body Shoppe /Bath and Body Works / hippie style store, I would go in, hoping beyond hope this scent would be resurrected. I can’t tell you how many black light poster shops /head shops / natural food stores / essential oil shops I walked thru just looking --sniffing – for a replacement.

Fast forward 35 years, to about 8 years ago. Some of you know our extended family has an old farmhouse in the Catskill Mtns. It’s in the same county as Woodstock – yes THAT Woodstock – which is not actually where the concert was held. But it is a touristy, hippie destination for folks coming up from the city, and it is quite the artists’ haven.

Great bumper sticker first seen there:
“Jesus is coming! LOOK BUSY!!”

Todd Rudgren has his house and professional studio in nearby Bearsville.

So sauntering down the Main Street of Woodstock, I find a cute hippie-thread, leather emporium. Lots of candles and incense, too.

And there is where I found the replacement.
Wild Rose brand, “Rain”.

Research told me it was manufactured in a nearby town in New York, and it is sold under various labels.

I bought two bottles that day, and have returned to buy several more. They sit alongside the original. Which only has vapors now. But this scent transports me every time.

Well, your story has a happy ending. Mine, unfortunately, remains open ended. When I was a teenager, someone I knew used a men’s cologne that I thought then (and think now) had the best scent I had ever encountered. I asked him for the brand name and it was such a strange name that I thought he was pulling my leg. He wasn’t. He showed me the bottle and sure enough, that funny name was real.

Fast forward . . . I spent years trying to track down someone who sold it or knew who did. No success; zip, zero, nada. (This was long before there was an internet where you could search for things by pressing a few keys.) I finally did find a brand that was very similar, but clearly not the same. Eventually (20 or 30 years in) I gave up.

Rhubarb pie and Mulberries and cream. Both remind me of lazy summer afternoons at my Grandmothers house in Illinois along the Mississippi River! :yum: