As an architect, I deal with the Americans with Disabilities Act , (ADA) regulations on a daily basis. Until I was diagnosed as diabetic I little thought that the regs would apply to me so immediately.
I have never been hassled about doing my glucose testing, which I do on my arm, in a public place and I do it all the time, discreetly, and I would just not look if someone else were doing the same or injecting insulin.
Th best thing to say to anyone who suggest that you take your heath maintenance activities “elsewhere” is to say that the ADA , which is CIVIL RIGHTS legislation, requires reasonable accomodation, and that failure to provide such accomodation results in a $50,000 PER DAY fine if complaint in filed and proven.
You can file complaints on line, and I encourage individuals to do so at the drop of the proverbial hat. I complain to the management of restaurants, stores, etc and to building departments about non-accessible facilities ALL THE TIME and have ceased to be surprised at how fast the situation is corrected when I mention the ADA and its implications.
Of course I told “shocked” people who objected to me breastfeeding my daughters in public, so many years ago, “just where they could get off” as well… don’t let the bastards grind you down…
I’m really impressed by all the replies and I have decided to not return to that restaurant. When I left the restaurant, I told the waiter that I’ve never been asked to use the bathroom. I’m sure they will notice my absence since I was probably their steadiest customer. There is another Indian restaurant in the area, but its a bit further away.
I am very encouraged by the fact that this has not happened to more people. It makes me feel better that this is probably an isolated incidence and that I would not have to face this situation again.
Go the extra mile, Chuck, and inform the management of the restaurant, as I 'm certain the waiter is not about to disclose that info. to the manager!!! Or write a letter to the editor of your local newspaper…neither of these need to involve disclosure of the waiter’s name!
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I am absolutely brazen about my sons diabetes care whenever wherever…however. As long as he’s comfortable I am. It is life sustaining and needs to happen wherever we are. I’d hate to think of anything coming between a diabetic and their best care, it’s complicated enough already. I also think we are raising awareness, giving a visual to help people understand the need for a cure.
I agree with you Linda! I made that statement because it has actually been said to me more than once. You know what is ironic… they are usually overweight and unhealthy (not that all diabetics are, but their risk is greater). Wonder what they will say when they get their diagnosis, or worse.
