Ok so the guy who i thought was my best friend now hates me. He says all i wanna do is fight and lie. He thinks i like him and is trying to break him and his girlfriend up. I want my friend back. I try to explain to him i dont like him and that i dont try to fight and everything but he ignores me. So i wrote a poem. Its not good but oh well im still shareing it.
You stood by me when i was sad
But now that all has changed
See you’re the one that hurt me,
Now nothing will ever be the same
I thought thought we were friends
But i was wrong
You changed into someone that
I now no longer know
Anna, if putting these emotions into a poem helped you, the poem is good. You describe emotions that others of us have felt and have had to deal with, it is honest, it is well written – so the poem is good. Best wishes – keep writing.
If he is truly your friend he will come back. It can be hard for a male and a female to be best friends. There are so many extra things that can cause trouble as you both get older and a girlfriend feeling jealous of the relationship you have with her boyfriend is just one of them. Have faith that your friendship is stronger then the fight you two had.
People do change, and sometimes we don’t know why. Even when we’re supposed to be adults, this happens. Almost 10 years ago, my best friend of 23 years abruptly stopped speaking to me, no explanation, no response when I tried to ask what the hell was going on. We’d been close since we were in 7th grade, all through college, grad school… every major life transition, we’d shared. And then suddenly, nothing! I tried for the better part of a year to get her to communicate with me and tell me what had caused her to simply cut me off. In the end I had to just let it go and move on. I still don’t know what the problem was… but whatever it was, she neither cared enough to try to resolve it nor respected me enough to tell me the truth. And that says a great deal about her character, and it also tells me that the friendship I thought we had may not have been what I believed it to be (either that, or it, or we, had changed substantially without me realizing).
Losing someone you’re close to sucks. It’s OK to be sad, it’s OK to be angry. Just know that if you can look yourself in the mirror and say you honestly did your best, that’s all that really matters. There will be other friends, and in time the hurt fades.
I was low that day and wouldnt go up ( and as u all know when ur low ur not in the best mood ) and i tried to tell him and he said it wasnt his fault that he cant control my blood sugar
I’ve said some stupid things to people when low that required profuse apologies later. I hope I was forgiven. One incident was really embarrassing because it was during meeting. It happens & people don’t realize how we’re not in control at the time.
Maybe he’s not as good of a friend as you thought if he can’t accept an apology.
