I NEVER Check in here anymore. So if your messages go unanswered, please do not take it personally. I just don’t need to talk about something constantly in order to handle it. It is what it is. Food, shots, and then back to my life. This was a great site in the beginning and I’m sure there will be times when I’m back more regularly. I’m doing fine and just don’t feel the need. I don’t check Facebook much either. 
You are all fantastic, see ya around. I’ll check in once a year whether I need to or not.
To each his own. I still need the site and my friends here to keep me focused. Good luck to you. reed