I can relate to you. Just in the past couple of days I became very very tired and I knew something was very wrong with me. I just couldn’t describe all of my symptoms to my husband. But I did tell him and he did know something was wrong.
I asked him to call his friend to look up a doctor her father went to when he had a stroke. I am petrified of having a stroke because there is a history of it in my family. He still hasn’t told me who the doctor was that took care of his friend’s father.
I look at it this way. I know I have just upset my husband because neither one of us know which way to go on this subject. Add in insurance issues and there is a bigger problem. Will they pay and what is covered? I know he is scared for me and I just try to stay away from blaming him for not caring.
It’s frustrating I know but at least we have tudiabetes to share our issues. Don’t get too down on your partner or yourself. I wish I had better advice and maybe some one else can input. Our partner’s are our closest friends and sometimes we just ask for too much from them and don’t realize it.