I’ve always worn my tubed (not Omnipod) pumps on my belt. I’ve read here that women use a variety of locations including pockets, hooked on their bra, on a “leg thing” on their thigh.
When I shower or bathe I just disconnect at the site and go without the pump infusion for a short period of time. Many infusion sets are designed with a quick release mechanism that enables an easy disconnect. You can take a small dose before and/or after to compensate. I usually swim with my Animas Ping pump since it is designed to be waterproof. If I’m worried that my swimming activity might somehow dislodge the pump, I would just disconnect for that short period. I would be comfortable disconnecting for up to an hour without any major disturbance to my BG control
As to the best brand, you will have to research and hopefully trial any that you seriously consider. Most people finance their pump (in the US) with health insurance and health insurance usually makes you use any pump they pay for for at least the warranty period, often 4 years. So it’s important that your comfortable with that commitment before you say, “I do!”
I’ve seen some pump comparison charts published over the years. Do a google search and see if you can find them. I’d also check diaTribe.org for that.
There’s any ongoing debate among pump users as to the desirability of tubed versus tubeless pumps. I prefer the tubed variety for many reasons but there are many long term and happy tubeless pumpers. Learning to live with and accommodate the tethered pump is no big deal to me.
I strongly advocate trying any pump before buying. If they don’t let you do a trial then I’d get the pump company to commit to a no-questions-asked money-back guarantee for say 30 days.
I use 42 inch long infusion sets to enable bathroom use and flopping around in the bed at night. I just lay the pump down next to me while I sleep and move it around when needed.
The earliest iterations of the artificial pancreas are already starting to appear. Most people don’t consider these earliest versions as really the automated control they have in mind but you can see the AP already taking shape. One model of the Medtronic pump (530?) will shut off insulin delivery for up to two hours when the integrated CGM drops below a set threshold. The next improvement is another Medtronic model (640?) that will shut off delivery when the integrated CGM predicts a future low. That pump is not available in the US yet but it should appear soon.
The more sophisticated AP pumps with partially automated insulin delivery are expect in the next year or two. The basal rate will be automatically adjusted based on CGM readings and the wearer will probably have to do some interaction when eating.
I personally will be waiting for some significant improvements over class of 2017/2018 since I’ve learned that their goals are not as ambitious as the ones I already target and achieve using my home-grown tactics.
Have fun pump shopping! Learn all you can. The pump is just a fancy syringe and currently your brains are the most important factor in how well you do.
I wanted to add that good customer service is important. I’ve had good experiences with Medtronic, Animas, and Insulet (Omnipod). Getting an overnight shipment when a pump fails is important to me.