I have a 4 year old daughter (non-diabetic) and my 20 month old son who was just diagnosed in November 2013 with T1. I do my best to explain what all is going on to my daughter in an effort for her to be involved, but find there are days when she will out of the blue mention to me that Diabetes scares her, or she will tell people out in public, strangers, that she has Diabetes. It's been such an interesting adjustment with my son, getting acclimated to everything. I am doing my best to keep Ashleigh involved and so don't want he feelings to fall through the cracks. Any suggestions from anyone who has been where I am now......I'm doing my best, but I am EXHAUSTED!