I need to know just how dangerous it is for me to be eating ice cream...( I don't have it every night...but, I do love ice cream.) My hubby and I were at the grocery store tonight..and he absolutely put his foot down(a second time, I might add) on me buying ANY ice cream...he keeps telling me that if I want to lose body parts..that he wants NOTHING TO do with it..however ..then after this "lecture" he always adds.".I almost lost you on the day after our wedding day!" (I walked into E.R....because I had high sugar numbers,and was severely dehydrated!!..I stayed at the hospital for about two to three days, and was finally diagnosed with type two. I actually was sick with it the day before..and a bit before that..and more than likely had diabetes for a while but, never even realized it.)
Anyhow, to continue,my hubby got into that "lecturing mode" that he usually gets into...and tells me off while we are shopping or when we are driving to the store to shop. It almost gets "ugly" because I am extremely stubborn and he gets extremely angry with me...I end up usually backing down..and telling him "Fine, okay..I won't get the D*** ice cream!!!" but, I will tell you..I am NOT a happy camper!!! NOT by a lonnnng shot!!!
SO...just to ask you now...Is having the ice cream..just way to DEADLY for me to have in the first place and I should NEVER have any of it...or can I have it..or should I just learn to have to LIVE WITH OUT IT? Sorry..I am not angry with you....I am still rather upset...because every time I mention that I am upset about NOT buying the ice cream..he brings up the fact that I nearly died..and that he does NOT want to lose me..(which I understand..and NO, I am not stupid, nor trying to act stupid here..I got it!!) but, I WANT that ice cream!!!!!!!!
Help!!!!
P.S. We also have pizza and steak, and potatoes..and sometimes fast foods, chinese foods etc..(Not all foods raise my blood sugars..so, I KNOW that I obviously can't have certain foods all that often or that much of them. Ice cream is so so..but, because of the fats and sugars..that is why I am asking this to you all. Oh and before I forget..he has type two diabetes..but, his is NOT like mine is...his sugars are better than mine are...and apparently he has to check HIS sugars every few weeks or so...(that's the directions his doc' gave to him!!
Thanks!!
luvscoco99