So it’s been almost 50 years of T1 diabetes. Well controlled, no serious side effects or neuropathy. Of course, have had some “events” but overall, good. Also almost 50 years of marriage to a wonderful man. He worried about me even as he was dying from cancer. He recently passed. It is the hardest thing I’ve gone through (yes, including my diagnosis) He was so concerned about me and who would call 911 if I needed. Who would save me when I have a serious low, which by-the-way, has been few and far between. He was with me through it all, learning phase, pregnancy, ER visits, injections, pumps. He expressed how he worried about leaving me alone before he died and it crushed me, he should have been worried about himself. I think he was using it as a distraction to what was really happening. Our daughter promised him she would take care of me just before he passed.
Today I was babysitting for said daughter and my 10 and 13 year old grand kids. Drove them to school then lay down on the couch and fell asleep where I fell into an extreme low for 3 hours. Under 45. (I have developed an unawareness to my lows which is another factor in his worry) I finally pulled myself up, got half way to the kitchen, where my legs gave out from under me and I collapsed, finally into the sweats, shakes and mangled thoughts. Didn’t know if I could even stand let alone walk but managed to get up and get some juice. Lay back down and totally slept through the time to go pick up my grandson! OMG I feel HORRIBLE!! My husband was right, he should have been scared. I’m a danger to leave alone and I AM SO SCARED.
I’ve never lived alone with this disease. I am on a pump and CGM and recently acquired a apple watch BUT none of them were close to me (I know, first mistake) so I’m assuming I didn’t hear the alarms. And I was going to eat before leaving, took my insulin, and then proceeded to forget to eat. (second mistake) So that being said, I DO know why this happened but, in the future, how do I prepare for living alone with this? Sorry this was so long.